Shopping for your wedding dress is one of the most exciting moments of your bridal journey, and your appointment is where the magic truly begins. At Sash + Bustle, our goal is to help you feel confident, informed, and completely yourself as you explore all the possibilities.

One of the best ways to make the most of your time? Ask great questions!

Whether you’re a planner, a feel-it-in-your-gut bride, or somewhere in between, these are the top questions to bring with you to your bridal appointment.

1. How long will it take for my dress to arrive?

Delivery timelines vary by designer, season, and customization. Most made-to-order gowns take anywhere from 4–8 months to arrive, so asking this early helps set your expectations and keeps your planning stress-free. Your stylist can walk you through rush options if your wedding date is quickly approaching.

2. What size will I be ordering?

Bridal sizing is different from street sizing (and can feel confusing!), so your stylist will take your measurements and recommend the best size based on each designer’s unique chart. This is the perfect moment to ask why we suggest a certain size, how alterations may affect the fit, and what to expect once your gown arrives.

3. What alterations should I plan for?

Almost every bride needs some tailoring to make their gown feel like it was made just for them. Ask your stylist about typical alterations for the gowns you’re loving—whether that’s hemming, a bustle, strap adjustments, or sculpting the bodice. This helps you anticipate your timeline and budget.

4. Are there customization options?

If you’re dreaming of adding sleeves, raising a neckline, lowering a back, or adding sparkle, now is the time to ask. Many designers offer customizations or “build-your-own-look” elements. Your stylist can help you understand what’s possible and what’s better left to alterations.

6. How do I know when I’ve found “the one”?

This is one of the most common questions we hear! The truth is: it doesn’t look the same for everyone. Some brides cry, some smile quietly, some sway side-to-side in total comfort. Ask your stylist how other brides have known and trust what feels right for you. Your moment is yours.

7. What should I do after I say yes?

Once you find the dress, your stylist will walk you through next steps—from placing your order to alterations timelines and accessory appointments. Asking this during your appointment helps you feel at ease for the exciting journey ahead.

Final Tip: Don’t be afraid to speak up!

Your bridal appointment is all about you. If you love something, say it. If you’re unsure, ask. If you want to try a bold silhouette, go for it! Your stylist is there to support you every step of the way.

Ready to get started? Book your appointment at Sash + Bustle today!